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May 08, 2008

A Heritage of Habits: GTD for the family

I desire to have children who are fruitful and focused for the Lord, and family that lives in a next-action mindset, ready to take whatever next steps in faith we are called to take.   

In that vein, I have been thinking a lot over the past two years about how to incorporate the GTD methodology and other principles of productivity in our family's life, and how to instill these practices in our children from a very early age.   I mindmapped a bunch of ideas about this a couple of years ago, including how to leverage knowledge of child development to instill next-action thinking in kids.    Here is an example (.pdf) of one such map (note: it's pretty busy, so you'll need to zoom in to read small font in some parts).  I have others that I hope to share as I blog more about this.   

I was inspired to re-look at these old maps by a terrific post by Micheal Sliwinski that I read today at GTD Times.  The article offers good, concrete advice for families based on Michael's experiences implementing GTD at home.   I recommend checking it out if you're thinking about how to do this with your family.    From what I can tell, Michael Sliwinski will be contributing regularly about this topic, so I'm eager to learn more from his experiences.

The inspiration to revisit my maps and ideas about GTD in the family comes at a good time.   First, I am preparing to teach a three-part seminar in Sunday School at our church.   This seminar will build on the pilot seminar I presented a year ago to three couples from our church.   The presentation this month will have many more participants, God willing; and I suspect those who attend will be at various points in the life cycle.   I know that family life and child rearing is important to this group, so I need to refocus myself on these ideas in order to be as helpful and relevant as I can be.   

Second, it's a good time for this to resurface because our family is preparing to move to new home in June.  So, we're in major planning and set-up mode.   We're doing lots of things to try to build GTD into our new living space.   For example, we've dedicated what was the dining room in the house to be a "family office," with the idea of having a dedicated productivity hub for the kids.   I'm also building a home office where I'll have my own hub.   It's an exciting time to think through how we want to order our lives and our children's habits.

With a move and a job change coming in the next two months, I doubt I'll blog any more than my usual 2-3 posts per month.   But I'm eager to use some of these opportunities to gather and pray through my developing ideas about GTD for God's family.

June 07, 2007

My Godward Toil Story (Part 3)

...Continued from PART 2.

I tend to have a preference for orthodoxy, so once I decided that I would try GTD I wanted to implement it by THE BOOK.   But the book said it could take 3 days to start!  How would I find 3 solid days (!) to reorder my work and home life?   I decided that I would try to do it in 2 days, and set them aside during the week of Christmas when things are quieter around my workplace.   I prayed that God would be pleased with this step, and honor it by giving me great speed.   Instead, God provided an additional two days!   We were visiting out-of-town family for Christmas and both of my kids got sick, causing us to come home early.  It was sad and hard for us to leave early, but by the time we got home the kids were much better and my wife and I decided to seize the moment for me begin my GTD implementation  It turns out I needed it--it took 4 full days to bring order to my complicated life.

It is appropriate at this point to note my wife's role in this.   By nature, she is a more organized person than I am.  She never criticized me for the way I managed things (or didn't), but my attitude when tasks around the home would come up was terrible.  I often grumbled and complained, and she bore the brunt.  It pains me to think about how it must have discouraged her to have a husband so full of energy and ideas, yet so ineffective in responding to the day-to-day details of our family's life.   Many times, I forced her into a position of having to organize me with lists and schedules, which wasn't good for either of us, nor is it how God intends a marriage to be.  When I told her I was ready to try a new system, she was probably skeptical but was extremely supportive.  She gladly gave me the time, and the space in our home I needed to implement my plans.

to be continued...